Look Ma! No Tubes!

The last tube coming from Parker's nose was taken out! I know I never posted a photo when everything was attached, but he was unconscious and I wasn't able to ask his permission. I am so proud of this photo! You can still see the trach tube and collar, but that will have to stay for several more weeks at least.

Parker says the picture looks like a mug shot. I say it is the most beautiful picture I've ever taken of him and that he's been watching too much MSNBC today.

Last week they took out the NG tube which suctioned everything from his stomach, and today they took out the tube they have been using to feed him. It had gotten dislodged and wasn't in the small intestine anymore, it had come up to the stomach and the doctors thought that might be why he was still throwing up a little bit.

That was one LONG tube!

Yesterday was a little frustrating in that Parker's digestive system still won't behave in the manner he would like it to. But we know the more he moves, the better he will be.

Today he worked with the Physical Therapists for over half an hour, a combination of sitting up unassisted (only a little help getting up at first), standing twice and shuffling his feet to the side. This is to be sure his brain remembers how to tell the feet to move when he starts to take steps. Baby steps. Hopefully by Friday. That's the goal.

I have slept at the hospital each night since we moved from ICU. They have a chair in his room that converts top a table, and last night our wonderful Nurse Nancy (see Fairy Dust post from April 12th) gave me foam panels to lay on top of it so it felt more like a real bed. Moving from ICU to IMC (Intermediate Care) is scary in that our nurse has two or three patients, not just Parker. There is a lot less to fret over, but when you've almost lost your life, or that of your child, it takes a bit of convincing that this is all okay.

Today the Critical Care Specialists said their job with Parker was done. They are very pleased with his progress and although he continues to have a lot of issues to deal with, none of them appear to be imminently critical. Remember those words? We've come a LONG way!

John comes back sometime soon and I am hoping when he does I will be able to go out a little west of Austin to visit one of my oldest and dearest friends who has waited so patiently for me. It will be really nice to be in a totally different environment for a day.

Parker realizes there is something very significant about the fact that he lived through this. His life will never be the same, physically, emotionally and/or spiritually. He talks a lot about what it all means, but understands as I do for myself, there are more questions than answers at this time. He still wants me to read the blog to him, and we wove our way through a little bit more yesterday. Parts of it are so hard to read still.

Our nurse today, Lisa, brought Parker a cup with a few pieces of cut up fruit. I wish I had taken a picture of his face when he ate his first piece of cantaloupe. He said it was like Heaven. His diet is now called "full liquids" and for some reason, someone in the kitchen thinks he must love grits because he gets grits for breakfast, lunch and dinner. I'm not sure how grits qualify as liquids, and why they always appear when he won't even eat them. We think it is kind of funny.

Kidney doctor had to put him back on Lasix to get some of the fluids off that have been building up again, causing swelling and high blood pressure. They have stopped forcing him to take the orange potassium liquid, so now he'll have to take the giant horse pills instead. But the orange liquid stuff comes right back up.

Interesting potassium fact: eating one banana a day doesn't cut it. You'd have to eat a large 20" banana to get a significant amount of potassium. Raisins are better, but the best thing is dried apricots. Kidney doc says dried apricots and water are the best things in the world for the human body. :-)